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As of today I will be Checking in Sporadically
Thank you so much to all my friends who sent me a birthday wish. You people made it one of the best deviant birthdays I have ever had. I would write more but something more important has happened.
My Mother is in the hospital right now. When she comes home she will be in homed Hospice. Yes I know it happened suddenly do to the fact that the Dr. I fired in Oct. had no idea she was even close to having to be Hospice. In between firing him two months went by where she saw no Dr. from this Awful Awful place that I thought would help my mom.
When taken to Emergency the first thing her Dr. said to me was he is putting her in Hospice. Then I had to explain that she did not really have a Dr. I am fortunate that I mentioned this to my Dr. on my last visit and he was going to evaluate her after the end of the year. He was nice enough to admit her under his care.
Upon meeting her new Dr. today he could not believe what this other Dr. had done to my mother. I told him that the other guy was more concerned about my housekeeping and new cement than my mom. I do not think I will have a problem getting a note from either Dr. for my complaint over Mom's treatment. I will keep you updated as much as possible, just because it sounds like such an interesting story. Thank you my friends you gave me the best birthday I could have asked for now I am asking for your prayers and thoughts as well. I don't care what you believe in just send anything good my way.
Not Feeling Better/Boy Do I Have A Headache
So many things have happened in the last couple of years. Aw Hell, if you look at it from my point of view it is six years. In that time I made friends on dA and Facebook. Both the accounts were created to help Mom and I. Deviant art was given to me by phluph. He has been a Deviant for years and knew I had to meet more people. I created the Facebook account for Mom. That way she could keep up with family that was out of town. I would like everyone to know that both did more for me than I could ever expect.
I made real and true friends on both pages. If it were not for devianArt I would never have accepted a friend request from someone I did
This is Now
On Jan. 27th my friend called. Her daughter who was going to mandatory Rehabilitation. Unfortunately the only person who could drive her was her crazy boyfriend. Now remember she is 31 and he is 27. Do you really have to be told not to visit anyone because there are warrants out for you? Well my friend told that guy to stay away from family. Of course no one listened. Well maybe the 2 year old, but she is really smart. So he obviously was not going to make it home in time to take care of the other kids.
Me? I am still not well and going through tests. I lose energy so fast and can be down for days. So it was not until the 7th time it was men
What the Fudgesicle Have I Gotten Into?
So many strange and interesting things have happened to me since my Mom's death. I thought one of the blessings would be connecting with my best friend since 9th grade. I really should have known better than that, nothing ever goes right it seems. Especially when it comes to me and my friend. Like I keep telling people,. "If being a friend were easy, everyone would have one.
While I was at my friend's house, I took over the cooking. I may have forgotten to mention that her mother lived with her at the time. Her mother never knew how to cook. The kids were supposed to do the dishes. I was still wiping myself out but I also wanted to help.
So
Back to Me Again
So five days after the Memorial for Mom, which I really wanted to be a Wake but... My friend who I had not seen in 4 years came to get me. I was on my way to new adventure.
On the first day I met 8 of her grandchildren. She had adopted 3 of them since the last time I saw her. She was also in a new house. Her daughter the mother of the 3 was living in the old house. You would think this would be a happy occasion, right. My best friend for 40 years and I finally get together. My Mom died February 10th and her Dad 15 days later. We really needed each other.
So the idea was to see a 9th grandchild's dance recital. I told her I was too tired to
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My dear ,
Here are some much-needed hugs for you and Mom. Here's hoping that you're both receiving the love and support you need, and more!
Sunny and I celebrated eight wonderful years of marriage, just yesterday. Nothing fancy, just a nice quiet day home. Moreover, Our Sunny's diabetes is stabilizing, now that he is on insulin! I'm so relieved!
How I wish the same for you and Mom, regarding her care!
Love and hugs a-plenty!
Here are some much-needed hugs for you and Mom. Here's hoping that you're both receiving the love and support you need, and more!
Sunny and I celebrated eight wonderful years of marriage, just yesterday. Nothing fancy, just a nice quiet day home. Moreover, Our Sunny's diabetes is stabilizing, now that he is on insulin! I'm so relieved!
How I wish the same for you and Mom, regarding her care!
Love and hugs a-plenty!